Years ago in Australia, a barrister by the name of John came to have lessons with my sister – also an Alexander teacher. Ro insisted that he take a lesson every day.
However, he was unresponsive.
One of the key features of a lesson is being touched. The intention of the teacher's touch is to guide you to move posturally in a new way. This then helps you do what you want to do: to breath, to stretch, to play music or sing. Anything at all.