What did you feel when you woke up today?
How did you make sense of it?
You don’t need to make sense of your positive experiences – they are wonderful! It is the negative experiences you want to examine. When you experience a strong negative emotion, what do you do?
My guess is that you give this negative experience a name.
You call it “tired” or “worried” or “depressed” or “sad” – whatever. Words are called forth to give your experience a name.