When you're in pain - what do you do?
I personally follow one of two stategies: medicate or meditate. The first takes the form of netflixing, shopping, drinking - you get the idea. Alternatively, I become the monk: withdraw, go silent, pray, be good and hope insight will lighten my mood.
However, there is a middle way, that straddles two worlds and it all starts with with physical/emotional/spiritual pain.
I find myself - when teaching in BodyChance - telling my trainees over and over:
"Pain is what is right about you."